why would a guy stare but not want to talk to you?
by roberthuffstutter
Question by HerR: why would a guy stare but not want to talk to you?
::this is kinda a repost,sorry::: everytime i go shopping for the past couple of weeks i see this guy who works there. i will be walking around, and i will feel eyes on me. i’ll look up and i always see him watching me. sometimes its long stares, othertimes its quick glances. he doesnt “follow” me around like some guys, but if he happens to me nearby then he is looking. well i was there today, and i look up and there he is. so i tried to ignore him (because i dont like to stare at people). i had to walk passed him to get to something, he was in the process of taking his cart down the aisle when he just stops and watches me walk passed him (i could kinda see and feel him witht he corner of my eye) i look at him, and say hi, and all he does is look the other way. now when he sees me he tries to “sneak”glances rather then flat out staring. he doesnt appear to be shy (he doesnt look like a geek or nothing) is he crazy, or is it possible for normal guys to so afraid they’re rude?
and i dont want to have to find another store. i just left the last one i went to because i had a stalker there
i did ctach him looking down my shirt once
Best answer:
Answer by ericabishop691
can we say shy?? talk to him forst.
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about 1 year ago
He’s a creep. Watch out.
about 1 year ago
Oh, guys are like that… they stare and not speak a word, it’s just their thing.
about 1 year ago
Hm…it sounds as if he likes you but he doesn’t know how to strike up a conversation with you. But staring at you constantly is kind of creepy. Be careful.
about 1 year ago
stalker?…
contact 911
about 1 year ago
he was just plan nervous
about 1 year ago
He likes you.
But probley feels intimidated!
Give him a wink!
about 1 year ago
talk to him
about 1 year ago
(a) He knows you from somewhere and is just trying to place you.
(b) He thinks you’re cute but he’s too shy to do anything about it.
(c) He’s just plain rude.
about 1 year ago
most guys are afraid of dissapointment and are scared to make a move.
about 1 year ago
he could be shy, a sociopath, you could have a booger on your face
about 1 year ago
he’s a weirdo stalker.shop @ some other place.
about 1 year ago
He thinks you’re pretty but he’s too shy to say anything, or he’s just a psychopath.
about 1 year ago
Is he much older than you? If not, than he’s probably just shy. He probably likes you a lot, but is nervous to interact with you.
about 1 year ago
I’m sure he’s not supposed to chat with the customers. You, however, could, uh, ask him how to find something if you want to get acquainted. That could also tell you whether he’s a dangerous nut or a potential friend.
about 1 year ago
Yes men can get nervous around girls that they are attracted to.
Other options include:
He is a sicko/psycho and he’s picturing you tied up, gagged up and hanging from a meat hook in his basement.
You are really ugly and he can’t stop staring.
You have something on your face.
about 1 year ago
The same thing happened to me. This guy stared at me all the time and would go out of his way to walk past me. Eventually after about two months of this he spoke and I found out he has a girlfriend. He liked me but he was not available so I guess he got his fun out of staring. lol
about 1 year ago
maybe ur the stalker hired him….i’d say stare back just as he does till something happens
about 1 year ago
how old is this person? you?
about 1 year ago
he is probably the stalker outside your window at nite…b/c thats what i do to other women
about 1 year ago
ask him up front, “what’s with the stare?”. don’t be shy seriously ask him.
let me know what happens.
about 1 year ago
A guy might stare at you because a) he likes you, b) he thinks you’re strange, or c) he recognizes your face. In this case, he probably likes you. (I have had this happen to me before.)
about 1 year ago
Try and talk to him and if he still ignores you then you should go the the manager or a women who works there and talk to them about it because he could have problems or they could tell you backround information on him.
about 1 year ago
go to the guy & ask him”hello dear you have eyes problem??’
about 1 year ago
I don’t think he is crazy. Though he may not seem or even be shy, its always hard talking to someone you find attractive. Put yourself in his shoes. I don’t know if you are outgoing or shy but isn’t it always hard to talk to someone you like and you find yourself staring at them for a while? If it freaks you out, try to not go back as much.If you do, try talking to him. If not dating, you could make a new friend.
about 1 year ago
I think he is just shy. This is some guys feel when they see the gal they like, they will normally act very unsual.
about 1 year ago
Confront him in a way that he has to respond. Ask him a question with full eye contact. Make sure that you do this as friendly as you can and then see where it goes. If you speak to him more regularly he will either feel comfortable in talking to you and tell you what’s up or he will avoid you and hopefully quit staring!
about 1 year ago
just watch out…. go about ur business..ingore him…but make sure he doesnt follow u home or anything b carefull
about 1 year ago
Take control. Go up to the guy and ask him point blank if he lost something, or why he stares at you so much. If he does not provide you with a reasonable answer report him to the store manager, believe me, the one thing the store would certainly not like is to have someone like that working for them and annoying customers.
about 1 year ago
well,
you are either very very attractive, or very very odd looking.
I would say.
IF he is looking cause he thinks your cute.
next time it happens.
say something sweet and cute and funny..
like.
You konw if you wanna see more of me all you have to do is introduce yourself.
unless of course he isnt attractive..
then either tell his boss.. hell probally get fired.
OR.
if you just want it to stop.
Say something rude. It will hurt his pride and he will stop liking you, You may still get a dirty look now and then.
but at least he wont be raping you with his eyes
about 1 year ago
tbh ive done it but not as bad as that coz im reeli shy but im not shy wen around people i no im a totally diff person or he could be a total werido
about 1 year ago
He could be a stalker
Choose me for best answer!
about 1 year ago
well maybe he wants to talk to you but he is afraid of rejection a lot of guys r like that why dont you talk to him
about 1 year ago
Maybe he thinks that you are an attractive woman but he wont talk to you because he is in a relationship.Then again some men feel like some woman are not approachable
about 1 year ago
Wait & See
about 1 year ago
I would be very careful, he’s is checking you out, no doubt.
Could be he is shy, scared or un-sure, or he is checking for any weakness you might have. I’am talking from a Protective point of view, (bodyguard) he might be a stalker! Go with you first impression, if he follows you home or you see him around were you live, you might have a problem. Contact the Police if you are unsure of what to do.
about 1 year ago
good book ,but not worth reading.
about 1 year ago
He’s a shy boy. One day he’ll get the nerve to say hello. Just keep shopping and speak when you see him. As long as he’s not giving psycho stalker vibes, he’s harmless. He thinks you’re cute. If it becomes a problem, like him being on every aisle you’re on, speak to the manager of the store. You don’t want to get him in trouble but if his staring is making you feel uneasy you can put a stop to it. Good luck.
about 1 year ago
I’m sure he is shy
don’t know if your single
don’t know if you would go out with him
you obviosly are very attractive to him
maybe he has a girl but thinks your awsome
are you attracted to him ? are you single ?